Please Explain
Ina, my lola, has just suffered a mild stroke last Dec. 26. Nakita na lang siya ng nanay ko na lupaypay. My mom thought she was just sleepy so they carried her and sent her to her bed. It was already 9pm when they decided to bring her to the hospital kasi wala pa ring pababago sa lola ko - mahina pa rin at hindi maintindihan ang mga salita.
She was sent to the hospital and stayed there for 5-6 days. It was found out that her left body part is numb and is suffering from a mild stroke. She's now home. Although, we still can't understand her words, I know she's recovering well.
Habang tumatagal lalo akong nasasaktan. Ang dami kong natutuklasan at nalalaman. Dati, ayokong pansinin kasi alitan nilang magpapamilya yun at anak lang ako. Kaso kung mayroon man silang problema bakit kailangan madamay ang lola ko. Nacontact ko na ang mga pinsan ko, yung iba busy, yung iba may sakit, may bisita at kung ano pang dahilan. Bakit parang wala akong marinig o maramdaman na may willing mag-alaga sa kanya. Nasasaktan ako sa mga nangyayari. Yung isa pang kapatid ng nanay ko dinedeny pa na nanay nya si Ina. =((
Ang hirap. Bakit ganun? Paki-explain naman sakin para maintindihan ko. Hindi ko talaga alam kung ano ang dapat kong gawin.
She was sent to the hospital and stayed there for 5-6 days. It was found out that her left body part is numb and is suffering from a mild stroke. She's now home. Although, we still can't understand her words, I know she's recovering well.
Habang tumatagal lalo akong nasasaktan. Ang dami kong natutuklasan at nalalaman. Dati, ayokong pansinin kasi alitan nilang magpapamilya yun at anak lang ako. Kaso kung mayroon man silang problema bakit kailangan madamay ang lola ko. Nacontact ko na ang mga pinsan ko, yung iba busy, yung iba may sakit, may bisita at kung ano pang dahilan. Bakit parang wala akong marinig o maramdaman na may willing mag-alaga sa kanya. Nasasaktan ako sa mga nangyayari. Yung isa pang kapatid ng nanay ko dinedeny pa na nanay nya si Ina. =((
Ang hirap. Bakit ganun? Paki-explain naman sakin para maintindihan ko. Hindi ko talaga alam kung ano ang dapat kong gawin.
posted by LJ Regalado @ 12:38 PM
1 Comments:
At 1:23 AM,
Jofell Gallardo said…
I also had that experience. Most of the reason is the child feels that the mother wronged them. But the child should know that sometimes, life isn't as easy as pleasing one child. A mother has to be a wife, a sister, also a daughter, and a mother.
I guess it's time for them to understand the mother, not her (or you guys) to understand them. Imagine how she broke her back to work and tend for a child, what more if it's greater than two. She nursed all of them when they were young. I'm not saying they should give the favor back, but the reason they are healthy, able, and useful in the society is because of their parents. I guess making her comfortable is the best they could give right now. :)
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