It’s not how long you've been together

Hubs and I were really smooth-sailing for 5 years til we came here in Canada. Suddenly, mahirap pala ang buhay. Work-life balance is tough...and if you dont have a strong support system behind you, madaling masira ang samahan ng mag-asawa. Doble hirap kesa sa atin kung saan ang dami mong matatakbuhang tulong. So I can understand why Nikki went thru all this. Lalong malala kapag nagkaanak na kayo, when things become more hectic...when managing yr budget becomes a greater task. Pero things will become better...depende sa commitment nyong dalawa. If you both agree to ride thru the storm together no matter what, malalagpasan nyo din. Maybe its not too late...but if it is, I wish you find yr happiness.

Well said. A comment  from Nikki Valdez breaks down as she reveals real status of her marriage article.

"Love is not how long you've been together; not how much you've given or receive; not how many times you've helped each other … It's how you VALUE EACH OTHER..."