Everybody has different set of priorities

Worst case scenario $400 will be deducted to our deposit.
That means $66 will be deducted from each of us.

It is a matter of priorities.
I am single.  No kids yet. No responsibilities (not that much).
She has kids and paying some monthly bills.
Her life is very different from me.

My priority is peace of mind.
Her priority is her kids.
I am willing to give up my $66 for the sake of my peace of mind.
But not her.
She said, "Panggatas na ng anak ko yun."

Oouch!

if you want to make the relationship work....

.... sa isang relasyon, kelangan two way yan, kapag sa tingin mo, may mali ang partner mo, dapat sabihan mo ito in a nice way. this way, malalaman nya na ayaw mo pala ng ginagawa nya. hindi naman manghuhula lahat ng tao para malaman nila kung ano'ang ayaw mo kapag tatahimik ka na lang.

it's up to your partner kung magbabago ba sya o hindi. kung mahal ka nya, mag-aadjust sya. kung hindi naman at least you did your part in making the relationship work.

from http://www.pinoysg.com/forum/viewtopic.php?p=778792#778792

I so agree. But this doesn't apply to boyfriend-girlfriend relationship only. For me, it applies to all if you want to make the relationship work.

Reminiscing...

Saw this post. Kamusta naman hindi pa pala nababasa ni Aizza Cruz. 2010 na! La lang. I have been blogging since 2005. It was nice reading old post. It's nice to reminisce who I was (and the people around me).... and to realize how much I have changed.